Many couples use Valentine’s Day to refresh and renew their love for one another. On a holiday full of red, hearts, and chocolate, take a bit of time to pamper yourself as well as your spouse. When you feel sexy, put-together, and rested, you’ll cultivate a happy Valentine’s Day for him as well.

Take a Long Weekend
This Valentine’s Day falls just before a holiday weekend. Valentine’s Day falls on a Thursday this year, and many people get the following Monday, President’s Day, as a paid holiday. Sneak away to a nearby town or bed and breakfast for a fast, easy vacation that doesn’t require catching airplanes, extensive packing, or added stress. Or, if you’d like, spend some time together at home. Just be sure to carve out time within the weekend to focus on each other rather than getting distracted by the things you need to get done at home. And send the kids to grandma’s house.

Get a New Dress — or Undergarments
A great way to boost your confidence is to invest in some new clothing items that will spice up your appearance and love life. If you’re going out for dinner on Valentine’s Day, get a new dress, shoes, or bag that will add a fun touch to the evening. You don’t have to spend an arm and a leg to do it — we’ve found these Express promo codes at the Sidepon website, which you can use on the websites of many favorite brands. If your evening will be a little more private, invest in some new lingerie sets or a sexy nightgown. Just be sure the lingerie matches your personality and personal style.

Pamper Yourself
Go get a pedicure, manicure, haircut, waxing, or whatever else it will take to impress your significant other and make you feel sexy too. If you can, get a facial and massage, which will help relax and rejuvenate you. You’ll appreciate how beautiful you’ll feel, and your partner will love the effort you put into looking beautiful. Enjoy Valentine’s Day in whatever way you choose to celebrate.